Metro, July 17, 2012

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Having Boyfriend or Girlfriend Helps Students Learning?

Having boyfriend is normally for someone. As an individual you need to know how the way to socialize, and having boyfriend is the one of the ways to do socialize. Having boyfriend is when woman and man to be know closely. It means that if we have a boyfriend it is like you have your good friend and your family but it is more closely and also opposite of your sex. Boyfriend gives you support in all of condition that you have to face like if you have a problem. There are many thing will be happen when you have a relationship especially having boyfriend. On the other hand some people think that having boyfriend cause a fuss because it spend much time, much power, much money and so on. All of in this world have positive impact and negative impact, having boyfriend is too.

Having boyfriend has positive impact for you. If you are a student and your boyfriend is a student too it is good for your relationship. You can compete with your boyfriend to get the best score in your learning. Of course, it is a positive thing of having boyfriend you can spend your time to learn together with your boyfriend. Proverb said that “By once row you pass one and two islands at the same time” or “skin diving”. It means that you can do two benefits by do something. It is forced you to try the best one so that it doesn’t make you be ashamed in front of your couple. That’s the first positive impact of having boyfriend encourage you to learn more.

When you have relationship you must have similarity and understanding to your couple. If you have similarity and understanding to your couple it makes your relationship be better than if you don’t have similarity and understanding to you couple. You can along with your boyfriend by similarity and understanding. That’s why similarity and understanding are the keys of found a relationship, because it connects you and your boyfriend. It can be a positive impact of having boyfriend because it can train your understanding of others people.

Honesty is important to build a relationship with others, after knowing the honesty you must acceptance it. It is same as parachute. Parachute is more useful if the parachute opened, because it can save many people’s life. It means that honesty and acceptance to other it’s good for a relationship, it can be a bridge to build a relationship. That’s why in build relationship you have to be honesty and acceptance. In this world there aren’t perfect thing so you have to accept deficit and surplus of other people.

No body perfect, it is true I agree about that statement. No body perfect and every body in this world are different. But it gives color in this world. It makes this world more beautiful. In this world you can’t find perfection. But you can create the perfection by combining the surplus and deficit to complete you life. That’s why there is statement said that I am incomplete you aren’t either, but you can unified the surplus and deficit to be complete. The important one of positive impact have boyfriend is when you in bad condition and you have trouble your boyfriend can help and support you same as your best friend or you family and also he always in beside you whatever your condition. It gives pleasure and attention for you.

In the others hand having boyfriend causes negative impact to you. In you life you had have many working, it spend much time. When you have boyfriend it make more spend your time and also can disturb your life especially your obligation. If you have a problem with your boyfriend it can cause bad effect for your life especially for you concentration. When you in process learning your concentration will divide and disturb by it. Even less if your boyfriend is very over protective, of course it will disturb your life, because you can be freedom. But it can prevent if you had a treaty to appreciate of you right and also if you can distinguish between obligation and private importance.

Difference is a unique thing. Difference can unify many people and also it can set aside many people. Because of it there is statement said that “It’s not an easy took to build a bridge for two difference” because difference is beautiful. And the last is religion reason. If you say about religion reasons, you can’t say anything. It depends on your thinking and your perception about it. It has similarity like a knife it can use to something bad and something good. Something bad is like killing someone, threatening someone and so on. Whereas something good is like cooking a food, cutting something and so on. It means that all of them depend on for whet you use it.

In conclusion, neither agreed or not about having boyfriend is necessarily going to be successful in your learning and also to be happy. You can choose the best one for your self. If you feel you must have boyfriend to make your life more colorful and beautiful and also help you in your learning, why not? But if you feel it just disturb your life, you must avoid it. It would better than you if you focus to get what you want. Because everything had has their time so you can do it if the time has been come to you. It means that everything will be all right if it is in the right time.